Wednesday, 4 April 2012

Give IT to me!

I want to have sex!!

Ok, am I allowed to say that? lol.. But I do, I really do!

To be honest, I can't believe I'm writing this (as I can be very conservative... well in public! lol) but as I try to be as honest as possible in my writing/on this blog, allow me to be real.

So let me do a recap... I'm a single, Christian (born-again) Christian who loves Jesus! I have made a commitment to keep myself until marriage (i.e no sex before marriage, for avoidance of doubt) and I'm a strong advocate of  pre-marital sexual purity by God's grace!
So this blog is all about my journey with God to meeting The One! And I try (well key word being 'I try' :-) to write about different experiences on my journey to meeting The One.

I have had many some upheavals on this trip and I am just trying to waiting patiently on God to bring that wonderfully wonderful man my way and then we love happily ever after!

Now, as many of you will agree with me, it's one thing to make a commitment, it's another to be faithful to it! So recently, or more apt, let me say as I have begun to grow in age (I'm not getting older, just growing! lol), my desire to 'know' this man called my husband is growing oh! I don't know if it comes with age or just the fact that my body can tell that the time is ripe and it's wondering 'One, how far now?'

I'm sharing because I believe that some people go through the same. The other day, my friends and I were discussing and sharing our growing frustrations concerns about the increasing need for us to meet this God-blessed man so that we can also know what this 'sex' is ALL about! (in addition to other things of course!)..
I have wondered about how it will be, the pleasure of knowing that with him I can finally go ALL the way and revel in it. Actually, just to know and to see indeed how pleasurable the act I have so often heard (well I pray that my husband and I would have an explosively delightful and fulfilling sex life - it's even a prayer point, no dulling! Yup, God made sex to be beautiful in marriage :-)

Anyways, that over, I still choose to wait over and over again! But in waiting, I can't wait, in terms of seriously seriously looking forward to it :-) May my expectations not be cut short, AMEN!!

Besides the fact that I choose to honour God with this, I have heard so many testimonies of my girl-friends who chose to wait and how much of a blessing it has been to them in their married life. Truth is, no matter how long the wait is, the appointed day will surely come (can I get an amen!?).

Memo to One
In the mean time, I am waiting patiently and carefully so that I don't 'burn' lol.
Just a few helpful pointers
1. Try as much as possible to avoid sexually explicit materials including books, audio and visual materials
2. If in a relationship, limit the amount of intimate/alone time you spend together.
3. As nice as preparation is, don't dwell on sex ALL the time, especially when preparing for it means you think about every single detail, to the extent that it affects your body's response.
4. If in a relationship, limit the amount of kissing etc to avoid further 'problems'.
5. Very importantly, pray for grace because having said all, it's only by grace!

Lots of love peeps! xxxx


  1. Playing the 'Devil's Advocate' here (pun intended maybe), but where is the lad going to hone this explosive skill from? Last time I checked every skill needs honing through constant practice.. :)

  2. Hmm my brother, have you not heard about the greatest teacher in history, aka the Holy Spirit?? I know that He teacheth ALL things. I am confident that He has sound knowledge of the said thing particularly as He invented it, yes? lol

    Besides, I quite agree with you that practice makes perfect hence why I plan to PRACTICE actively with my husband (after the vows) until we hit the nail on the head so much so that even Karma Sutra would take tips from us (so help me God!) + we have the rest of our lives to get it right!

    PS Welcome to my blog, I see it's your first time.. I love the layout of yours xx

  3. LMAO...Here's an "Amen" sister...Still LMAO at the devil's advocate argument. Love your down to earthedness though.

  4. great response to RuskGeek

    love ur will be alright by God's grace...and yes it pays to wait...and like u said u'll have forever to practice with ur husband...

    we also shared some tips on the soul sistas blog on how to attain sexual purity. do check it out if you haven't already

  5. This is so real! LOL...Amen to your prayers o!

  6. @Aloted and 1+ The One.. I stand duly chastened.. :)

  7. I am simply so proud of you... and it is worth the wait.

  8. wen i read d 1st line,im like-has her account been hacked..looool
    i love it!!!
    n wen i read ur reply to the rust geek guy-i kept hittin my laptop!!!BEST REPLY EVER!!! i always get dat comment practise makes perfect-its soooo annoying!!im like adam and eve ddnt have 2 practice wid other people and the got it ryt!they even had TWINS!!loool

    im hppy ur blogging more often now sha...n i hope uv visited my blog o


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  10. @Rita, you inspire me :-) xx
    @David C Brown, thanks bro and thanks for stopping by :-) xx
    @TheRustGeek, it's all love :-D
    @Sayedero, you are such an amazing encourager *kisses, kisses*. I appreciate your comments
    @May, yay!! Welcome, lovely to have you here. I hope it will be worthwhile for you xx

  11. @HoneyDame & aloted, lol, I have to be honest oh :-) xx
    @MW, I echo your amen too! xx

  12. Fantastic post! I just love the way you discuss very serious issues and yet manage to attach so much humour to it. It's a gift. Keep it up and keep waiting by His grace.

  13. Aww, much appreciated coming from you Watchman! God bless you xx


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