Take me out on a perfect date so I can…
Look hot and…
Wear my special outfit…
He would also spoil me with treats…
And buy me that blackberry/Iphone…
We would both go on special trips and…
Tour all the wonderful places I have heard off…
He’ll be the one to make me smile and…
Feel completely satisfied, on top of the world…
This will definitely improve my productivity and…
Make waking up early in the morning much more interesting…
Especially as his texts are the ones I would wake up to…
Calming my early morning nerves and…
Ensuring I would be a saint through the day…
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Sorry I was practicing for when I would be too busy…
Reading his texts and spending time with him…
Sometimes it would even make me forget what to write (or that I was writing!)
I’m sure some people would read the above with a smile and a little shake of the head! Isn’t it funny that some of us are waiting for the right guy to do all the things that we plan to do or hope to achieve? (Mind you, for some ladies, you can strike out the ‘right’ as they are just waiting for a guy, period! Lol.. We sometimes feel that once that right man comes, most of our life’s troubles would be sorted. There’s so much expectation placed on the right man and the right relationship that it sometimes contributes to extinguishing it even before anything can take root!
I strongly believe that one should embrace all of life’s opportunities as we have it now and stop putting off certain things until the right man comes.
Don’t wait to go on that date, do it now! Try setting up a ‘date’ with your friends and treating yourselves to a nice day or evening out! Learn to feel comfortable and enjoy your own company and that of your platonic friends. Factually, it may not be as exciting and wonderful as it would be with a significant other, nevertheless it is very worth it, you only have to try it to understand and appreciate the power of good, solid friendships!
Wear that gorgeous outfit now!
Don’t wait for a guy you can impress before you look nice. Love yourself enough to do things for yourself and not for the sake of others, it helps your self-esteem and the way you rate yourself. Besides trust me, if you don’t inculcate the habit now, don’t expect a miracle later.
Waiting is good, waiting is beneficial – I mean, the bible says that it develops our ability to be patient and patience they say is a virtue… On the other hand, waiting can be hard, it can be frustrating, it can be an absolute nightmare.
It’s up to you my friend to decide if you would rather ‘count sheep’ whilst waiting, or get on with other aspects of life and improve yourself in the process.
I love this post, i really do. Most girls do this, they wait and wait and then put lots of pressure on the guy to be everything they dreamed of, and they also forget about everyone else just because they have a new man lol
ReplyDeletenice one.. better to start living your life and who knows mr right or just any guy can come along
ReplyDeleteI was about to say "Wear that gorgeous outfit NOW" but you already said it. LOL
ReplyDeleteOh, and please buy that blackberry now too.
Hiya ladies!
ReplyDeleteThanks for stopping by (and a special welcome to the newcomers :-)
@onosetale thanks for reminding me about the way some ladies unfortunately drop their friends like hot coal as soon as a new man is on the scene...
@doll yup, I belong to that school of thought... I actually believe that good men are attracted to ladies who seem to have it together
@Jaycee Funny enough I was also waiting to 'get' my blackberry as a 'gift' until I snapped out of it and starting saving up for it.. it was such pride that I got the phone.. I can say that 'significant other' must have been pleasantly surprised :-).. not to say guys can't buy you gifts, not by any means... let them, infact some guys express their emotions through gifts and such thoughtfulness. It's about not just putting your life on hold till a man is there to do all!
God bless ladies xx
Still folding hands waiting for Mr right, good luck
ReplyDeleteIBB.... waiting is hard but it help you even discover yourself. A lot of people are in relationships bcos they don't want to be alone. Well, alone time helps you know who you are and what you want. Do what you enjoy doing; go out, see the world, build a relationship with God. Basically, have fun. @1 plus the one... The picture of that lady waiting though; lmao.
ReplyDeleteLOOL... I laugh when I see the picture too.
DeleteThanks for stopping by... And you're right, alone time is a great opportunity to build your relationship with God! Very very important. Treasure this moment!
Loves it... so apt...
ReplyDeleteThanks a lot! :-) xx
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